A LITTLE EROTIC TALK
The following excerpt appears in the book, “Talk Sexy To The One You Love”, by Barbara Keesling:

“Any woman who is lucky enough to know will tell you: Nothing is more exciting than having the man you love talk sexy to you. Nothing. The right words at the right time can start a fire burning inside of her that feels like it will never go out. It can make her breathless. Insatiable. Unstoppable. And it can do the same thing for the man....  Simple sentences such as, "I love to look at your body," "I want you," "I need you," or "I want to make love to you" can dramatically change the course of an evening, and sometimes, the course of an entire relationship. You've probably thought about saying things like this to your partner many times, but could you imagine actually doing it?”

Hot talk is a powerful turn-on for many people, and that’s an excellent reason to use it.It lets you communicate about sex without sounding too clinical.Communication in that way can only heighten the level of arousal between a man and a woman.

In the heat of your seduction, saying the right words at the right moment can make all the difference in the world.You must be careful, though.You don’t want to offend your woman by talking dirty if that’s something that might turn her off, nor do you want to risk her thinking that you only want her for sex (even if you do!).What you say depends on how well you know the woman and what has transpired between the two of you leading up to this very moment.

Say, for example, it’s your first date and you’ve both had a great evening together.There is obviously a mutual attraction.You take her home and the two of you begin kissing.Still, you’re not sure if she wants to sleep with you or not.If you don’t know for certain, don’t blurt out something like “I want to fuck you!”.Instead, say something romantic that appeals to her ego, like “You are so beautiful”.That will only make her hotter for you, which could take you to the next step.

It should be said that there is a difference between Erotic Talk and “Talking Dirty”.Talking Dirty is a more advanced form of sexual communication, using words that are rude, crude and naughty.Best to use this sort of talk when you KNOW that your partner doesn’t mind it.It can be a great way to arouse her, but only if she’s not offended or embarassed by the language.Until you’re comfortable with her (and she with you), keep your talk erotic, not dirty.As a relationship develops down the road, you can liven up the bedroom with whatever hardcore phrases you like.But don’t do it too early in the relationship… and not the first time you sleep with her.

If, however, she initiates the dirty talk, then it’s fairly obvious that she’s not offended using graphic language.You can then probably say just about anything to her that you want:“I’m gonna fuck you hard!”, “I wanna taste your pussy.”,“Yeah, suck my cock.”There’s no limit to the list of colorful phrases.

The best advice on talking dirty...If it turns her on, do it!